The moment that you stop wanting it is exactly the moment that the universe will bring it through for you. The moment that you stop caring, you let go of control, is the moment that it comes through to you. This is because you're no longer attached to it. You no longer need it in order to be happy. You can want it whilst also not needing it. That's the energy that we need to be in.
When you're manifesting, it's inevitable that you always start from a place of desire. That's the want. But when you start needing that desire in order to feel okay today, you start to repel that desire because your vibration lowers as you go into a state of scarcity, of not having enough, of not feeling complete.
A big part of manifestation is tapping into feelings of the future. And in the future, how are you feeling? You're probably feeling abundant, joy, expansive energy, which if you're currently stuck in a place of feeling lack and separation that you don't have what it is that you want right now, your vibration is too low to attract in that future state.
But when you finally just give up, this is usually the exact time that it comes through because you don't need it anymore. You've decided that you are enough, that your life is enough, that there is enough for you to be happy about right now, that doesn't require that manifestation to come through. It becomes a bonus. And that is the energy of surrender that makes you magnetic.